If you’ve ever wondered whether your cat truly loves you or just tolerates you for the treats, this one’s for you. Unlike dogs, cats are subtle when it comes to expressing affection—but that doesn’t mean it’s not there! Once you know what to look for, the signs become clear. Here are 10 adorable clues that your feline thinks you’re the absolute best.
1. Slow Blinking at You
Cats show love with their eyes. If your kitty looks at you and slowly blinks, it’s like a kiss in cat language. You can even return the gesture! It’s a sign of total trust—and a sure way to bond even more.
Tip: Try slow blinking at your cat next time they stare at you—it can deepen your connection.
2. Bringing You “Gifts”
Yes, even if it’s a sock, a leaf, or (yikes) a bug, that “gift” means your cat sees you as family. This hunting behavior is how they show care—by providing for you. Gross? Maybe. Loving? Definitely.
3. Following You Around
Ever feel like a tiny shadow is trailing your every move? That’s your cat showing attachment. When your kitty chooses to be in the same room—or even the same chair—it’s a huge compliment.
4. Purring When You’re Near
While purring can sometimes mean a cat is self-soothing, a happy, calm purr when they’re near you is a strong sign of affection. If your cat curls up in your lap and purrs, you’re their favorite person.
5. Head Butting and Rubbing
This may feel random, but when your cat bumps you with their head or rubs their cheeks on you, they’re marking you with their scent. It’s how cats claim their territory—and their humans.
Fun fact: This behavior is called “bunting,” and it’s one of the most affectionate gestures in the cat world.
6. Showing Their Belly
No, it’s not always an invitation to pet (beware the trap!). But when your cat exposes their belly around you, it means they feel completely safe. Vulnerability = trust.
7. Grooming You
Licking your hand, arm, or even your hair? Your cat sees you as part of their family. Mutual grooming is a social behavior that only happens with loved and trusted companions.
8. Chirping or Talking to You
Cats don’t “meow” much with each other as adults—but they do with humans. If your cat talks to you with meows, chirps, or trills, they’re communicating just with you. That’s special.
Try this: Meow back and see if they keep the conversation going!
9. Sleeping Near You (or On You)
In the wild, cats only sleep near those they trust. So if your fur baby loves napping on your pillow, lap, or chest, you’re definitely top-tier in their world.
10. Greeting You at the Door
Does your cat run to the door when you come home? That’s not just about food—it’s pure excitement. They’ve missed you and want to be near you. That joyful welcome is one of the sweetest signs your cat thinks you’re the best.
You’re More Than Just a Can Opener
Cats may not wag their tails or jump for joy like dogs, but their love is just as deep—and often more nuanced. These signs prove your kitty doesn’t just tolerate you—they adore you. So next time your cat gives you a slow blink or head bump, know it’s their way of saying: “You’re my person.”
